NorasHappyEnding

I´m not against Rose, I love her BUT when people say things like “Adrian knew that having a relationship with Rose included the possibility of a heartbreak but he chose to stay with her anyway” (I have heard this before too) then I feel like I have to say something. It feels like those people think that Adrian has himself to blame, maybe he does but let me ask you (whoever wrote this) Which kind of relationship are you absolutely sure will not lead to a broken heart? Are you ever really sure before you go into a relationship if it´s going to last or not? If you do know that then you must be able to foresee the future.

Taking chances is what life is all about, without them you´re not really living are you. I see Adrian as someone who was not afraid to take a chance on a relationship and hope for the best but that does not mean that he saw the worst coming or that he deserved it.

Why did Adrian go into a relationship with Rose? Well he liked her very much and wanted to be with her, he was obviously serious since he agreed to do all kind of things for her that must have been hard. Rose on the other hand wasn´t sure if she wanted to be with Adrian when going into a relationship with him not the way he was atleast and that´s fine BUT she kept him hanging on even though she wanted to be with Dimitri and don´t tell me that Adrian saw it coming and he should have known that she wasn´t going to stay with him.

How do you know that he saw it coming? love makes you blind you know. Rose who was obviously not blinded by love should have been the one to open his eyes and tell him ” Adrian, I don´t complete you so don´t waste your time cause you and me can not be together”. She didn´t do that. NO. She cheated on him instead and I don´t care if Dimitri  was her true love or not it still doesn´t make it right. He trusted her and believed her when she told him that she wanted to be with him because she was never straight forward with him. Is it wrong to trust people ? maybe, depends on how you see life and people.

So i´m not against Rose, I don´t hate her and I don´t think she´s a horrible person either but why do you have to pick sides. You can love Adrian and Rose just the same, she made a mistake just like Adrian has made mistakes and that´s all. Adrian is upset and he has every right to be but I don´t think he hates Rose and neither should we.

(Source: vampireacademysecrets)